By Nisha Jani
Nisha is a member of the Board of Trustees of The Jo Cox Foundation. Her life was immeasurably improved when she made friends with Jo Leadbeater (before she was Cox!) at university and as a Trustee she aims to carry on the work Jo cared about.
When I think back to my time at university, the memories are often a blur of late-night socialising essay writing and the overwhelming mission of trying to find my place in the world as a young mixed-race lesbian. I am still very proud of getting my degree, especially while challenged by feeling like an outsider in the world of tradition and privilege that both Jo and I encountered while at Cambridge.
These memories are tempered by the warmth of many important friendships made which I still hold dear today. My cherished friendship with Jo Leadbeater is all the more poignant and powerful now for the fact that it has been cut short.
Before she was Jo Cox MP – the tireless campaigner and humanitarian the world came to know – she was simply Jo, my friend.

A Friendship that Started at University
I first met Jo when she won a best sandwich competition that I hosted and judged (there is a photo but she’d be annoyed if I shared it). We were specially introduced as our mutual friend thought that fabulous women should know each other, and we quickly bonded over our complex Cambridge experiences. She was excited to be off to Indonesia to volunteer at an Orangutan sanctuary and then to start working in politics in London.
On meeting her for the first time, I was immediately struck by Jo’s personal energy and massive ‘twinkle’ power – she was like a dynamo of bubbly magnetism – as well as her sense of fun, and love for and interest in others. She also had a sense of purpose and drive that was impressive in someone so young. She struck me as someone I definitely wanted as a mate, and we started a friendship we would both come to value through our lives.
Carrying the Torch
When Jo was murdered, the world lost an inspirational leader, but I lost a dear friend. I don’t get to have Jo in my life anymore, as I imagined I would, to celebrate birthdays and anniversaries and spend random Thursday nights together. But I do have The Jo Cox Foundation and my role as a Trustee through which to continue Jo’s legacy.
Jo and I shared a fundamental belief in the power of kindness and care in human relationships which I have been worried and dismayed to find in increasingly short supply since her murder nearly a decade ago.
It was an honour to become a Trustee of the Foundation in 2022, and to play my part in continuing the work that Jo cared about so deeply. Whether we are nurturing stronger communities or advocating for more respectful politics, I am constantly guided by Jo’s friendly and calming reminder: “We are far more united and have far more in common than that which divides us.”
Ten Years On: The Power of ‘More In Common’
As we mark ten years since Jo was murdered, the weight of her absence is still felt by everyone who knew her. However, the legacy she left behind has never felt more alive, or relevant.
Our new short film reflects on Jo’s legacy and the incredible impact the Great Get Together has had over the last decade. It’s a tribute to the street parties, the shared cuppas, and the thousands of conversations that have proven, time and again, that we really do have More in Common.
Join Us for the 2026 Great Get Together
The Great Get Together captures Jo’s spirit perfectly. It isn’t about remembering how she died; it’s about celebrating how she lived by bringing people together who might otherwise never meet.
As a Trustee, my goal is to ensure that Jo’s message and values continue to spark real change. There is no better way to do that than by participating in the Great Get Together.
In 2026, we want to make the Great Get Together bigger and more inclusive than ever. Whether it’s a street party, a shared lunch, or playing sports together, these moments of connection are the best possible tribute to Jo’s life.
Will you join us by organising a Get Together this year?
Jo would have been delighted and super-proud to see so many people continuing to come together to choose tolerance, respect and care for others and were she with us still, she would be joining in with her usual gusto and helping hand round the tea and biscuits!
I feel that her spirit strongly inspires me and, potentially, all of us to focus on our common humanity and contribute more energy to connection and love, despite the challenging times we currently face. It means a huge amount to all who loved her to see people across the country coming together in Jo’s name. Thank you for being part of it.














